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Social skill: asking for help.

Asking for help can be difficult for many students and even adults. One of the reasons students do not persist into the second year of post-secondary education is their failure to ask for help with everything from counseling to tutoring to financial aid.

Help students practice asking for help by taking a fun and playful approach. On separate slips of paper, write down situations in which a person is asking for help -- e.g., “a teacher asking a colleague for help grading a huge pile of papers,” “an astronaut asking for help getting out of his suit.” Invite pairs of students to pick a situation and act out the scene including all the skill steps identified below.

Skill Steps:

  1. ​Look at the person. 
  2. Ask the person if he or she has time to help you. 
  3. Clearly explain the kind of help you need. 
  4. Thank the person for helping.

Check out this article from the Huffington Post on why it’s so important for kids to learn to ask for help.